No problem! Come yourself for the first session. In the first Marriage Counseling session, we will talk about your relationship problems and discuss options for counseling with your partner. We will discuss with you the benefits of marriage and couples counseling so that you are prepared with more information for your partner. Often we see that if one partner takes the first step, then the other will join sessions at a later time. Sometimes taking the first step is exactly what your partner needs to see to show that you are serious about fixing your relationship problems.
If your partner still refuses to come to counseling, you can still change the dynamics of your relationship by simply making changes in the way you respond and react to your partner. In the end, you can bring about changes in your relationship by addressing your own issues. While we would certainly prefer to work with both partners, we can still address many issues that may be damaging your relationship if you choose to attend sessions alone.